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There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off. Proverbs 23:18 (NIV) Hear, Read and Study more on Proverbs 23:18

The Role Parents Play (or The Role Our Parents Should Play)
This short video examines our relationship with our parents and how our relationships affect our worldview and of knowing God as Father. When we, as parents, do not live up the role that God has set for us, we set up our children with a picture of God as Father that is distorted.

If you do not know The Heavenly Father as your Heavenly Father or feel sparated in any way from Him please click here


Copyright notice: Father's Love Letter used by permission Father Heart Communications Copyright 1999-2008 www.FathersLoveLetter.com

A Father's Love Letter to You

Father's Love Letter
An Intimate Message From God to You

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The Journey Home To Love
The real-life stories of 5 people and their search to find unconditional love and acceptance.

If you do not know The Heavenly Father as your Heavenly Father or feel sparated in any way from Him please click here


Copyright notice: Father's Love Letter used by permission Father Heart Communications Copyright 1999-2008 www.FathersLoveLetter.com

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Leviticus 18:6-11 (NKJV)
6 'None of you shall approach anyone who is near of kin to him, to uncover his nakedness: I am the LORD.
7 'The nakedness of your father or the nakedness of your mother you shall not uncover. She is your mother; you shall not uncover her nakedness.
8 'The nakedness of your father's wife you shall not uncover; it is your father's nakedness.
9 'The nakedness of your sister, the daughter of your father, or the daughter of your mother, whether born at home or elsewhere, their nakedness you shall not uncover.
10 'The nakedness of your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter, their nakedness you shall not uncover; for theirs is your own nakedness.
11 'The nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, begotten by your father--she is your sister--you shall not uncover her nakedness.
Hear, read, study more on Leviticus 18:6-11

sexual abuse
While family dynamics, temperament, and peer pressure strongly shape a person's sexual identity, the single factor that most powerfully propels a girl toward a lesbian identity is sexual molestation, incest, or rape. Incest (which we define as sexual contact with a family member, relative or regular caretaker) is the most common and damaging form of sexual abuse. Usually, the perpetrator is a male--a father, stepfather, uncle, or older brother--although women can be abusers, too. Incest wreaks incredible devastation because a child is betrayed and violated by the very people she should be trusting to care for and protect her. Often the molested child will think, I must be a horrible person for something like this to happen to me! The abuser may threaten to harm or even kill the child if she ever divulges "our secret." Read More

Dr. Charles Stanley

Breaking Free From the Barrenness of Bitterness

Listen to Pastor Damian Kyle explain how the best friend and a counsel to King David allowed bitterness to take control of his life. Ahithophel had the right to be infuriated and to be bitter. Ahithophel was the grandfather of Bathsheba. Bathsheba’s husband had been murdered by the king. Ahithophel’s bitterness leads him to try to destroy the king. The bitterness grows so great that when Ahithophel was not allowed to kill King David, Ahithophel committed suicide.    

Ahithophel knew nothing about Nathan’s confrontation “’David’, you are the man.’” Ahithophel knew nothing about David writing Psalms 51 to be read and sung before the congregation.

I, Sam Horner, beg of you, Please don’t allow bitterness to destroy your life. Ahithophel had a right to be infuriated and bitter as you may have. Please allow Pastor Damian Kyle’s teaching, “Breaking Free From the Barrenness of Bitterness” to minister healing to you.

Pastor Damian Kyle

Calvary Chapel Modesto

http://www.ccmodesto.com/

Breaking Free From the Barrenness of Bitterness

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Psalm 103
God shows justice for the oppressed, supports, forgives, and forgets. He is slow to anger, and abounding in mercy. He has not dealt with us according to our sins, Nor punished us according to our iniquities

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Psalms 31:1-7 (NIV)
1 In you, O LORD, I have taken refuge; let me never be put to shame; deliver me in your righteousness. 2 Turn your ear to me, come quickly to my rescue; be my rock of refuge, a strong fortress to save me. 3 Since you are my rock and my fortress, for the sake of your name lead and guide me. 4 Free me from the trap that is set for me, for you are my refuge. 5 Into your hands I commit my spirit; redeem me, O LORD, the God of truth. 6 I hate those who cling to worthless idols; I trust in the LORD. 7 I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.
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Psalms 31:9-10 (NIV)
9 Be merciful to me, O LORD, for I am in distress; my eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and my body with grief. 10 My life is consumed by anguish and my years by groaning; my strength fails because of my affliction, and my bones grow weak.
Hear, Read and Study more on Psalms 31:9-10

Psalms 147:3 (NKJV)
3 He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds.
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Can I be forgiven?

The answer depends on the attitude that you come before the Father with in prayer.
Listen to Pastor Mike Abendroth of

Bethlehem Bible Church home page
As he ask the question,

Are You Forgiven?

The answer may be a surprise to who is forgiven and who may not be.

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Conquering Illicit Passion
Listen as pastor-teacher Dave Wyrtzen of Midlothian Bible Church and Truth Encounter teaches on Conquering Illicit Passion

The Sixties proclaimed the so called liberation message of Free Love.  Today we are living out the consequences of this rejection of biblical morals. Broken families, broken emotions, broken bodies—these are the signs that a spirit of lawlessness has taken over our land. There is hope! The sweet singer of Psalm 23 became an adulterer, liar and murderer but eventually found his way back home.

Fatal Steps into Adultery (2 Samuel 12)
The Adulterer Finds Forgiveness (2 Samuel 12)
Convincing Prodigals to Return Home

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This article examines "the last taboo" in sexual sin--and finding a biblical, redemptive response to those ensnared in it.... read more

The Lie

Pastor Wall Romans 1:24-32

When we decide to redefine how to handle our problems, hurts and pain contrary to the word of God we are rejecting the God who reveals Himself through His Word. When we reject God’s Word we have become part of the original rebellion. We have aligned our selves with Satan’s Lie that we can be as a god.

Genesis 3:4-5 (KJV)
4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.

Listen to Pastor Wall teaching on Romans 1 24-32 as he helps us to understand the downward spiral that will follow when we decide to call our own shots.

Pastor Alwyn Wall

Calvary Chapel Westminster London

http://www.calvarylondon.co.uk

Can I ever be forgiven by God?

By lay teacher Sam Horner
         I will answer your question with The Word. “And you, who once were alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now He has reconciled  in the body of His [Jesus] flesh through [His] death, to present you holy, and blameless, and above reproach in His sight”-- Colossians 1:21-22 (NKJV)

         If you will admit your wrong, ask forgiveness for your wrong He [Jesus Christ] will forgive and impart [pay the charge] that was written against your account. He [Jesus] ran the race and you get the gold medal. His righteousness is put on your account and your sin was put on His account. In this is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation (the atoning sacrifice) for our sins.” 1 John 4:10 (AMP)

          After receiving forgiveness He asks you to forgive as He forgives. Matthew 6:9-15

         For those of us who have been forgiven much we understand how to forgive others. For those that try to put sins on a scale of one to ten with ours being only a one and their sin a nine or a ten, forgiveness becomes hard to extend to others.     

Wow, I want to meet this Jesus and a Father that loves me this much right now.

Psalms 31:22 (NIV)
In my alarm I said, "I am cut off from your sight!" Yet you heard my cry for mercy when I called to you for help.
Hear, Read and Study more on Psalms 31:22

Psalms 34:18 (NIV) The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Hear, Read and Study more on Psalms 34:18

Sexual abuse/Incest/Molestation

         If you are the perpetrator of sexual abuse, you must repent! The pattern of your life needs to be changed by God today. Ask God to forgive you and set you free from these temptations. I want to ask for forgiveness now and to have Jesus take away my guilt and shame. “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NASB)


         The trauma of the experiences along with the guilt and shame need not ruin your life from now on. "Flee from temptation," and remove yourself from situations in which abuse might occur.
Hear, read, study more on 2Corinthians 5:17


         Many who have been victims (willingly or unwillingly) of incest or molestation have memories that deny them the freedom to live without hate, bitterness and resentment, fear, and/or a desire for revenge. If you are the victim of sexual abuse, you may feel guilty for consenting to incest or allowing the sexual abuse (willingly or unwillingly). God still loves you and wants you to be able to forgive also. Jesus and Stephen, at the time of their deaths, were both able to forgive those who executed them. Both looked to heaven and asked God to forgive the sins of those who were guilty. If you are a victim you have the authority and influence with God concerning remittance of sin or retention of sin. "If you forgive the sins of any, their sins have been forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they have been retained." John 20:23 (NASB) God will listen to your prayer. Remember, Jesus came to forgive rather than to condemn (John 3:16). God will even release you from the pain of the memories. “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.” 2Corinthians 5:17 (NASB) The trauma of the experiences along with the guilt and shame need not ruin your life from now on.

Hear, read, study more on 2Corinthians 5:17

I want to ask for forgiveness now and to have Jesus take away my guilt and shame.

—Adopted from The Christian Counselor's Handbook—

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